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Why do coworkers see me as unreliable with ADHD? 

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Author: Avery Lombardi, MSc | Reviewed by: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

Many adults with ADHD find that colleagues or managers view them as unreliable, even when they’re trying their best. Research from 2022–2025 by the NHS, NICE, and occupational studies shows that this perception stems from the cognitive and emotional features of ADHD rather than a lack of effort or professionalism. 

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Why ADHD can appear as unreliability 

ADHD affects executive function, the mental system responsible for focus, planning, and follow-through. Studies on PubMed and SAGE Journals show that time blindness, working memory deficits, and distractibility often lead to missed deadlines or incomplete tasks. These lapses are neurological, not behavioural. As a result, colleagues may misinterpret them as carelessness or disinterest. 

The role of stigma and misunderstanding 

According to the NHS England ADHD Taskforce, many employees with ADHD report feeling misunderstood or excluded from opportunities. Stigma and bias mean that forgetfulness or impulsivity are often seen as personal flaws, damaging trust and team cohesion. The emotional cost is significant people with ADHD often mask their symptoms to appear dependable, which can lead to exhaustion and anxiety. 

How to rebuild trust and reliability 

NICE guidance (NG87) and RCPsych recommend medication, CBT, and ADHD coaching to support consistency and self-management. Practical adjustments such as structured feedback, clear deadlines, and digital reminders are proven to improve reliability and team confidence. 

Private ADHD services like ADHD Certify provide diagnostic assessments and coaching that focus on time management, communication, and building workplace trust. 

Key takeaway 

Perceived unreliability in ADHD does not reflect character or capability. It reflects how the ADHD brain manages time, focus, and effort. With structured support, transparent systems, and greater awareness from employers, trust and reliability can be restored and strengthened. 

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Avery Lombardi, MSc
Author

Avery Lombardi is a clinical psychologist with a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She has professional experience in psychological assessment, evidence-based therapy, and research, working with both child and adult populations. Avery has provided clinical services in hospital, educational, and community settings, delivering interventions such as CBT, DBT, and tailored treatment plans for conditions including anxiety, depression, and developmental disorders. She has also contributed to research on self-stigma, self-esteem, and medication adherence in psychotic patients, and has created educational content on ADHD, treatment options, and daily coping strategies.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy. 

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
Reviewer

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy. 

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