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How to deal with impostor syndrome in ADHD identity progress? 

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Author: Avery Lombardi, MSc | Reviewed by: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

Impostor feelings are common among adults with ADHD, especially during the early stages of understanding a diagnosis. According to NHS guidance, ADHD can affect focus, organisation and emotional regulation in ways that shape self-esteem over many years. For people who have spent a long time masking or overworking to appear “fine”, a later diagnosis can feel uncertain or undeserved. 

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Why impostor feelings appear 

Emerging research suggests adults with ADHD often report higher levels of self-doubt, perfectionism and rejection sensitivity. Experiences of chronic criticism, underperformance or difficulty meeting expectations can reinforce beliefs of not being “good enough”. When diagnosis finally offers clarity, it can feel strange to accept support or recognise long-standing patterns. 

Reframing your ADHD experience 

The NICE NG87 guideline highlights the importance of personalised information that explains how ADHD affects people across the lifespan. Reflecting on consistent patterns such as chronic disorganisation, emotional intensity or the effort involved in coping can help validate your experience and reduce feelings of fraudulence. 

Practical tools that help 

Evidence-informed CBT strategies can support emotional regulation and challenge negative beliefs. Helpful options include: 

  • Reframing unhelpful thoughts 
  • Keeping a journal of impostor triggers 
  • Using clinician summaries or assessment notes as grounding reminders 
  • Mindfulness practices to ease rejection sensitivity 

Private services such as ADHD Certify also provide structured ADHD assessments in the UK. 

Takeaway 

Impostor syndrome during ADHD identity progress is a natural reaction to years of coping or masking. With evidence-based tools and clear information, most people develop a steadier, more confident understanding of themselves. 

Avery Lombardi, MSc
Author

Avery Lombardi is a clinical psychologist with a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She has professional experience in psychological assessment, evidence-based therapy, and research, working with both child and adult populations. Avery has provided clinical services in hospital, educational, and community settings, delivering interventions such as CBT, DBT, and tailored treatment plans for conditions including anxiety, depression, and developmental disorders. She has also contributed to research on self-stigma, self-esteem, and medication adherence in psychotic patients, and has created educational content on ADHD, treatment options, and daily coping strategies.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy. 

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
Reviewer

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy. 

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