Why do I have trouble reading social cues with ADHD? 

Struggling to read social cues is a common experience for many people with ADHD. According to NHS guidance and the NICE NG87 guideline, ADHD affects attention, working memory, impulsivity and emotional regulation, all of which play a key role in how we notice and interpret facial expressions, tone of voice and social context. These differences can make everyday interactions feel confusing, unpredictable or overwhelming.

Understanding why ADHD affects social cue processing 

Difficulties with attention and working memory mean it can be harder to track conversations, notice subtle signals or remember prior context. Research published in Frontiers in Psychology shows that adults with ADHD often experience differences in pragmatic language, emotion recognition and nonverbal communication, which can make social responses feel “out of sync” (Frontiers review). A 2024 systematic review also found consistent challenges in understanding prosody, sarcasm and emotional cues among people with ADHD (PubMed). Emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity can amplify misinterpretations, especially in ambiguous situations. 

Practical strategies to improve social understanding 

NHS guidance and the NICE NG87 guideline recommend a combination of psychoeducation, CBT-based strategies and social skills training to help improve social confidence. Techniques such as checking in during conversations, practising active listening, and using reflective pauses can support clearer communication. Mindfulness can enhance moment-to-moment awareness of others’ emotions, while ADHD coaching can help develop social self-awareness and communication routines.  

Private services such as ADHD Certify offer post-diagnostic support aligned with NHS guidance and the NICE NG87 guideline to help individuals navigate social challenges with greater confidence. 

Key takeaway 

Trouble reading social cues is a recognised part of ADHD, rooted in attention, memory and emotional regulation differences. With structured strategies, supportive communication and the right guidance, social interactions can become more predictable, comfortable and rewarding. 

Avery Lombardi, MSc

Author

Avery Lombardi is a clinical psychologist with a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She has professional experience in psychological assessment, evidence-based therapy, and research, working with both child and adult populations. Avery has provided clinical services in hospital, educational, and community settings, delivering interventions such as CBT, DBT, and tailored treatment plans for conditions including anxiety, depression, and developmental disorders. She has also contributed to research on self-stigma, self-esteem, and medication adherence in psychotic patients, and has created educational content on ADHD, treatment options, and daily coping strategies.

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

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