Why do I feel like I’m always talking over others with ADHD? 

Interrupting or talking over others is a common experience for people with ADHD. According to NHS and NICE guidance, impulsivity, fast-moving thoughts and working-memory limits can make it difficult to hold back ideas or wait for a natural pause. Research also shows that social-cognition and pragmatic-language differences in ADHD affect how conversational timing is understood, which can make overlapping speech more likely even when someone is genuinely trying to listen. 

Pragmatic-language and social-cognition differences 

A 2023 meta-analysis found that people with ADHD show significantly poorer pragmatic language skills, including turn-taking, topic maintenance and regulating how much they talk (Pragmatic Deficits Meta-analysis). A 2023 cross-linguistic study also showed that adults with ADHD struggle with conversational timing across multiple languages, with hyperactivity–impulsivity strongly linked to interrupting (Pragmatic Abilities Across Languages Study). 

Executive-function and emotional factors 

Working-memory lapses and impulse control difficulties can lead to blurting out thoughts before they are forgotten. Emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity can also create pressure to respond quickly, especially when someone fears being misunderstood or criticised. Evidence shows that these emotional factors can make conversations feel urgent or high-stakes, increasing the likelihood of talking over others (Rejection Sensitivity Study). 

Strategies that can help 

NICE recommends psychoeducation, behavioural strategies and psychological interventions, such as ADHD-focused CBT, to support communication skills and improve turn-taking (NICE NG87). Coaching, mindfulness and environmental adjustments can also help slow conversational pacing and build awareness of cues. Private services like ADHD Certify provide assessments and post-diagnostic support that can help individuals understand these communication patterns and explore suitable interventions. 

Key takeaway 

Talking over others is often a symptom of ADHD, not a character flaw. With the right strategies and support, it is possible to strengthen conversational timing, reduce interruption and feel more connected in communication. 

Avery Lombardi, MSc

Author

Avery Lombardi is a clinical psychologist with a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She has professional experience in psychological assessment, evidence-based therapy, and research, working with both child and adult populations. Avery has provided clinical services in hospital, educational, and community settings, delivering interventions such as CBT, DBT, and tailored treatment plans for conditions including anxiety, depression, and developmental disorders. She has also contributed to research on self-stigma, self-esteem, and medication adherence in psychotic patients, and has created educational content on ADHD, treatment options, and daily coping strategies.

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

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