What is emotional dysregulation in ADHD?
Many people with ADHD describe feeling emotions more intensely, from frustration to excitement, and struggling to calm down once those feelings are triggered. According to NHS guidance on ADHD in adults, this is known as emotional dysregulation, and it is now recognised by NICE NG87 as a key part of ADHD that affects both children and adults.
Understanding emotional dysregulation
Emotional dysregulation means having strong, fast-changing emotions that are difficult to manage or recover from. People with ADHD may react more quickly to stress, criticism, or disappointment and find it harder to “cool off” once upset. According to NHS Dorset and the Royal College of Psychiatrists, around half of adults with ADHD experience emotional control difficulties that affect relationships, work, and wellbeing.
Why does it happen?
NICE and NHS evidence show that emotional dysregulation in ADHD is linked to differences in brain networks that manage impulse control and self-regulation. This means the brain’s “brakes” on emotion are slower to respond, so feelings can build quickly. Oxford Health NHS Foundation Trust notes that many people also have trouble switching focus after emotional triggers, leading to lingering anger or shame long after an event has passed.
How it can be managed
Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) is the most effective psychological approach for managing emotional dysregulation. CBT helps identify emotional triggers, challenge unhelpful thinking, and build coping strategies. A 2025 PubMed review also found that mindfulness-based programmes can improve self-awareness and reduce impulsive emotional reactions.
Emotional regulation training and psychoeducation groups, such as those recommended in NHS adult ADHD resource packs, help individuals learn to name and manage emotions before they escalate. Medication, while helpful for focus, is often most effective when combined with psychological support (NICE, 2025).
For additional support, therapy-based programmes like Theara Change focus on emotional self-regulation and coaching, while regulated assessment services such as ADHD Certify provide comprehensive ADHD care within NICE-aligned frameworks.
Takeaway
Emotional dysregulation is a recognised part of ADHD, not a personal weakness. According to NHS and NICE guidance, combining CBT, mindfulness, and structured support helps people understand and manage strong emotions with greater confidence and control.

