Table of Contents
Print

Why do I forget groceries or errands constantly with ADHD? 

Author: Victoria Rowe, MSc | Reviewed by: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

You make a mental note, pick up milk, post a letter, and grab your prescription. Then you get home and realise you forgot all three, this is not carelessness. It is a classic symptom of ADHD forgetfulness, where even the most basic daily responsibilities get lost in the noise of everyday life-=xbnm 

ADHD affects short-term memory, focus, and task sequencing. That means even if you intend to do something, your brain may not store it properly, or it gets pushed aside by distractions. Add a bit of stress, time pressure, or a busy environment, and your mental checklist evaporates. 

Why ADHD Minds Lose Track of Errands 

Here is what’s going on behind the forgetfulness: 

Weak memory encoding:  

Unless a task is written down or repeated aloud, it might not “stick.” Using visual shopping lists or voice memos helps externalise your memory. 

In-the-moment attention issues: 

 Distractions (phones, crowds, noises) pull focus away from the task at hand. Use route-based cues (e.g., post letter when you pass the red door) to stay on track. 

Non-urgent tasks get deprioritised:  

Errands do not always feel immediate until it is too late. Add them to timed reminders or place physical cues (e.g., a bag at the door) to create urgency. 

Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations on ADHD-friendly tools and systems for memory, planning, and follow-through.

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to Losing track of conversations or tasks. 

Victoria Rowe, MSc, author for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Victoria Rowe, MSc
Author

Victoria Rowe is a health psychologist with a Master’s in Health Psychology and a BS in Applied Psychology. She has experience as a school psychologist, conducting behavioural assessments, developing individualized education plans (IEPs), and supporting children’s mental health. Dr. Rowe has contributed to peer-reviewed research on mental health, including studies on anxiety disorders and the impact of COVID-19 on healthcare systems. Skilled in SPSS, Minitab, and academic writing, she is committed to advancing psychological knowledge and promoting well-being through evidence-based practice.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy. 

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
Reviewer

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy.