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Is ADHD the Reason I Avoid Chores? 

Author: Phoebe Carter, MSc | Reviewed by: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

If you find yourself dodging dishes, laundry, or cleaning more often than not, you’re not alone, and yes, ADHD chores avoidance is a real phenomenon. For many with ADHD, the issue isn’t laziness, it’s a mix of executive dysfunction, motivation issues, and difficulty breaking tasks into manageable steps. These challenges can make even simple household tasks feel overwhelming or mentally exhausting. 

Why ADHD Makes Chores So Difficult 

ADHD impacts the brain’s ability to prioritise, initiate, and sustain attention. When it comes to household tasks, this might mean staring at a messy room, knowing it needs to be cleaned, but feeling paralysed about where to start. Tasks that lack immediate rewards, like folding laundry or scrubbing sinks, tend to be especially hard for the ADHD brain to engage with. 

Motivation issues also play a big role. Because ADHD affects dopamine regulation, the brain doesn’t always feel a sense of satisfaction from routine tasks. Without that internal “reward,” it’s harder to muster the energy to get started or follow through. 

How to Make ADHD Chores More Manageable 

Breaking chores into smaller, more specific steps helps reduce overwhelm. Instead of “clean the kitchen,” try “clear the table,” then “wipe the counters.” Tools like timers (e.g., the 10-minute clean-up) or using music and body-doubling (cleaning alongside someone else) can also boost motivation. 

Understanding that ADHD chores avoidance is a neurological issue, not a character flaw, can help you approach it with compassion and better strategies. 

Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations to better understand how brain imaging can inform ADHD treatment.  

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to ADHD misconceptions.  

 

Phoebe Carter, MSc
Author

Phoebe Carter is a clinical psychologist with a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and a Bachelor’s in Applied Psychology. She has experience working with both children and adults, conducting psychological assessments, developing individualized treatment plans, and delivering evidence-based therapies. Phoebe specialises in neurodevelopmental conditions such as autism spectrum disorder (ASD), ADHD, and learning disabilities, as well as mood, anxiety, psychotic, and personality disorders. She is skilled in CBT, behaviour modification, ABA, and motivational interviewing, and is dedicated to providing compassionate, evidence-based mental health care to individuals of all ages.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy. 

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
Reviewer

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy.