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How Does RSD Affect Self-Esteem in Individuals with ADHD? 

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Author: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

Many people with ADHD describe feeling crushed by even mild criticism or rejection. This emotional pain, known as Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), can have a powerful impact on self-esteem. Understanding how RSD and self-worth interact is key to managing these intense emotional swings. 

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The Link Between RSD and Low Self-Esteem 

According to NHS guidance, people with ADHD often struggle with low self-confidence that develops over time through repeated experiences of failure or misunderstanding. When RSD occurs, these memories are reactivated, making rejection feel like confirmation of personal inadequacy. The Royal College of Psychiatrists notes that emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity can trigger shame and self-blame, which in turn deepen feelings of low self-worth. 

Why RSD Hits Self-Esteem So Hard 

Research in The Lancet Psychiatry and PubMed shows that ADHD involves stronger emotional reactivity due to overactivation of the amygdala, the brain’s emotional processing centre. This heightened response makes rejection feel more personal and painful. The Cleveland Clinic explains that even small setbacks can trigger intense self-criticism. When this happens repeatedly, confidence erodes and individuals may start to avoid challenges to protect themselves from possible rejection. 

Rebuilding Confidence After RSD 

The NICE guidance on ADHD (NG87) recommends a combination of psychoeducation, behavioural support, and therapy to help manage emotional reactivity. Practical strategies include: 

  • Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) to challenge self-critical thoughts 
  • Mindfulness techniques to pause before reacting emotionally 
  • ADHD medication to improve emotional regulation and focus 
  • Therapeutic coaching through evidence-based programmes such as Theara Change, which help people rebuild confidence and self-awareness 

These approaches focus on separating self-worth from momentary emotional experiences, helping individuals recover more quickly after perceived rejection. 

Takeaway 

RSD can significantly lower self-esteem in people with ADHD, but it does not define who they are. With understanding, evidence-based therapy, and support, it is possible to reduce self-critical patterns and build a more resilient sense of self. 

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy. 

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