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Is Social Withdrawal a Sign of RSD in ADHD? 

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Author: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

Many people with ADHD describe pulling away from others after criticism, rejection, or perceived failure. This pattern, often misunderstood as shyness or avoidance, can be part of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), a form of emotional distress that arises quickly and feels overwhelming. 

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Why Social Withdrawal Happens 

According to NHS guidance, people with ADHD often struggle with emotional sensitivity and low self-esteem linked to criticism or perceived failure. When an RSD episode occurs, the emotional pain can be intense and lead to sudden withdrawal, silence, or isolation. The Royal College of Psychiatrists notes that adults with ADHD may experience shame or self-blame after rejection, which can cause them to avoid further interaction to protect themselves from more emotional pain. 

What Makes It Different from Depression 

The Cleveland Clinic explains that RSD reactions happen within minutes of rejection and usually fade once emotions settle. In contrast, social withdrawal in depression is more constant and not tied to a specific trigger. RCPsych guidance and NICE NG87 both highlight that timing and duration are key to distinguishing RSD reactions from longer-term mood disorders. 

Supporting Yourself or Someone Else 

Withdrawal during RSD can feel like self-protection, but over time it may increase loneliness and reinforce fear of rejection. Helpful strategies include: 

  • Taking short breaks rather than cutting off completely 
  • Talking openly once emotions settle 
  • Using CBT or mindfulness to identify rejection-related thinking patterns 
  • Seeking ADHD-informed therapy or coaching support, such as behavioural programmes from Theara Change 

Medication that improves ADHD regulation can also reduce the emotional intensity that drives RSD reactions. 

Takeaway 

Social withdrawal can be a temporary sign of RSD in ADHD, not a permanent trait. Recognising the link between rejection and avoidance helps people reconnect faster and manage emotions more confidently, rather than retreating into isolation. 

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy. 

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