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Why do I lose things constantly with ADHD? 

Constantly losing things ADHD is one of the most frustrating and common struggles for people living with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. It is not laziness or carelessness. Instead, it often reflects underlying executive function difficulties, particularly in working memory, attention, and organisation. 

Losing things ADHD happens because the brain struggles to create reliable habits for storing and tracking objects. This can lead to repeated misplacing of everyday items like keys, wallets, or phones, often multiple times a day. 

How It Helps 

Poor working memory 

One of the key ADHD memory problems is weak working memory. This means it is harder to keep track of where items were placed, especially when attention is quickly shifting from one task to another. 

Lack of consistent routines 

Without a designated place for everyday items, the ADHD brain may not remember to put things in the same spot. This is tied to disorganisation executive dysfunction, where task sequencing and spatial awareness are disrupted. 

Distractibility and forgetfulness 

High distractibility leads to forgetfulness ADHD, especially when switching between tasks or environments. Something as simple as putting a phone down while answering a question can result in it being forgotten moments later. 

Understanding why losing things ADHD happens can reduce self-blame and support the use of tools like visual reminders, labelled bins, or checklists that help build stronger habits. 

Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations and expert advice tailored to your needs.    

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to Executive Function Deficits.

Harriet Winslow, BSc - My patient advice author - mypatientadvice.co.uk

Harriet Winslow, BSc

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Harriet Winslow is a clinical psychologist with a Bachelor’s in Clinical Psychology and extensive experience in behaviour therapy and developmental disorders. She has worked with children and adolescents with ADHD, autism spectrum disorder (ASD), learning disabilities, and behavioural challenges, providing individual and group therapy using evidence-based approaches such as CBT and DBT. Dr. Winslow has developed and implemented personalised treatment plans, conducted formal and informal assessments, and delivered crisis intervention for clients in need of urgent mental health care. Her expertise spans assessment, treatment planning, and behavioural intervention for both neurodevelopmental and mental health conditions.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy.

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy.