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How Can Friendships Be Maintained When One Has Inattentive ADHD? 

Maintaining friendships can be difficult for people with inattentive ADHD . Symptoms like forgetfulness, daydreaming and missed social cues may cause misunderstandings or create distance, even when intentions are good. For younger individuals, especially with ADHD in children, these patterns can emerge early and affect long-term social development. 

That’s where consistent ADHD therapy and practical strategies come in. With support for focus issues, memory, and emotional regulation, individuals with inattentive ADHD can develop tools to stay connected, communicate more clearly and show up in their friendships with more reliability. 

Friendship Tips That Support Inattentive ADHD 

Here are ways to maintain healthy friendships while navigating the challenges of inattentive ADHD: 

Use reminders to stay in touch 

Set calendar alerts to check in with friends or respond to messages. This helps manage focus issues and keeps relationships from slipping through the cracks. 

Practice active listening skills 

Make an effort to stay present during conversations. Visual cues or written notes can help children and adults remember details later. 

Develop emotional awareness 

For people with challenges in emotional regulation, therapy can teach how to pause before reacting or withdrawing. This strengthens trust and clarity in friendships. 

Support social development in children 

For ADHD in children, structured play, teacher guidance and consistent school support can reinforce positive peer interaction and build lasting social habits. 

Communicate openly about ADHD 

Letting close friends know about ADHD can build understanding and reduce misinterpretation of behaviours. 

Friendships thrive when supported by practical tools and emotional insight. Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations and help building social strategies into your care plan. 

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to Inattentive ADHD.

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

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