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How Do You Deal with Perfectionism at Work When You Have ADHD? 

It might sound like a paradox, but ADHD perfectionism is real and exhausting. While ADHD is linked with impulsivity and disorganisation, many people with ADHD also set impossibly high standards for themselves. When those standards are not met, it leads to guilt, paralysis, or burnout, and not better performance. The pressure to get everything “just right” can delay progress, kill creativity, and damage confidence. But there are ways to shift the mindset and regain momentum. 

How to Let Go of Perfectionism Without Losing Motivation 

Here is how to replace perfectionism with progress using self-compassion, realistic goals, and sustainable productivity habits: 

Embrace “good enough” as a success metric  

Not everything requires your maximum effort. Instead, ask yourself: What is the simplest way to do this effectively? and then follow through with that. 

Set clear, achievable goals  

Instead of vague aims like “nail the presentation,” try “create outline,” “design three slides,” and “practise intro.” ADHD brains thrive on specificity and visible progress. 

Practice self-compassion, especially after mistakes  

Perfectionism often stems from fear of failure. Remind yourself: messing up doesn’t make you lazy or incapable, it makes you human. 

Use deadlines to limit overworking  

Without a clear endpoint, perfectionism takes over. Time-box your work and stick to it done is better than delayed. 

Track wins, not flaws  

Keep a record of tasks completed and compliments received. Reflecting on progress builds self-trust and softens harsh self-judgement. 

ADHD perfectionism is not about being too organised; it is about being too hard on yourself. Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations and support in setting healthier, more human goals.

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to Workplace challenges. 

Victoria Rowe, MSc, author for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk

Victoria Rowe, MSc

Author

Victoria Rowe is a health psychologist with a Master’s in Health Psychology and a BS in Applied Psychology. She has experience as a school psychologist, conducting behavioural assessments, developing individualized education plans (IEPs), and supporting children’s mental health. Dr. Rowe has contributed to peer-reviewed research on mental health, including studies on anxiety disorders and the impact of COVID-19 on healthcare systems. Skilled in SPSS, Minitab, and academic writing, she is committed to advancing psychological knowledge and promoting well-being through evidence-based practice.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy. 

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

Reviewer

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy.