What is deficient emotional self-regulation (DESR) in ADHD? 

DESR in ADHD refers to a pattern of emotional overreaction, low frustration tolerance, and difficulty managing feelings particularly anger, sadness, or excitement. It’s not an official diagnostic label, but it’s commonly used in research and clinical settings to describe one of the most challenging aspects of ADHD. 

People with DESR may experience strong emotions that appear suddenly, feel overwhelming, and are hard to calm down from. These emotional spikes often seem out of proportion to the situation and can lead to impulsive behaviours or strained relationships. 

How DESR Affects Daily Life 

Here’s what sets DESR in ADHD apart from typical emotional ups and downs: 

Poor self-control under stress  

Students and adults with DESR may react quickly and intensely to minor setbacks, lacking the pause needed for thoughtful responses. This ties closely to issues with self-control and impulse management. 

Low frustration tolerance  

A small challenge like a change in routine or a difficult task can lead to outbursts, shutdowns, or visible agitation. 

Emotion-driven impulsivity  

The emotional intensity in DESR often triggers impulsivity, such as speaking out of turn, slamming doors, or withdrawing abruptly. 

In conclusion, although DESR in ADHD isn’t always formally recognised, understanding it can help families, educators, and clinicians provide more targeted support not just for focus and behaviour, but for the emotional experiences that shape daily life.  

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For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to Emotional Regulation in ADHD.