Why are ADHD individuals often late to meetups? 

ADHD lateness is a common challenge that many individuals with ADHD face. The difficulty in managing time, combined with poor planning and a distorted sense of time, often leads to arriving late for social events. ADHD lateness is not due to a lack of care or respect for others’ time but rather a result of the brain’s unique way of processing time and attention. 

For those with ADHD, hyperfocus is a key factor. When engrossed in an activity, they may lose track of time, making it difficult to stop and transition to a scheduled event. Additionally, time perception can be skewed, leading individuals to underestimate how long tasks will take, resulting in delays when trying to get ready. 

How It Affects Social Interactions 

Missed appointments and social discomfort 

Consistently being late can lead to relationship strain as others may feel undervalued or frustrated by the lack of punctuality. 

Anxiety and stress 

The pressure of rushing to catch up can cause significant stress for the person with ADHD, reinforcing the cycle of lateness. 

Difficulty with planning and organisation 

Poor planning often leads to last-minute scrambles, creating more chaos and increasing the likelihood of running late. 

Coping strategies like setting reminders, using timers, and breaking tasks into manageable steps can help improve ADHD lateness. With structure and support, individuals with ADHD can manage time more effectively and reduce the stress of tardiness. 

Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations and expert advice tailored to your needs.    

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to Social Relationships.