How can I encourage independence in my child with ADHD? 

Encouraging independence in children with ADHD requires a structured, supportive approach that builds self-management skills and boosts their confidence. According to NICE NG87 (2025), parents should focus on goal-setting, positive reinforcement, and consistent routines to foster self-regulation and independence. 

Practical strategies for promoting independence 

Parents can encourage independence by helping their child develop structured routines, such as setting fixed times for homework, meals, and sleep. NHS (2025) recommends breaking tasks into smaller, manageable steps and using visual reminders like checklists or charts to help children track progress. Giving children limited choices also helps them practice decision-making and boosts their autonomy. Berkshire Healthcare NHS Trust (2025) suggests using timers and step-by-step instructions to support children in completing tasks independently. 

Building a supportive environment 

Parents can also model calm, organised behaviour, which teaches children by example. RCPsych (2025) encourages parents to maintain positive boundaries while fostering an environment where children can gradually take on more responsibility. 

For additional support, ADHD Certify offers professional assessments and guidance on how to implement these strategies effectively, tailored to your child’s specific needs. 

Key takeaway 

To encourage independence in children with ADHD, parents should create structured routines, set achievable goals, and use positive reinforcement. By providing consistent support and fostering self-regulation, children can develop valuable skills in time management and task completion, boosting their confidence and autonomy. 

Avery Lombardi, MSc

Author

Avery Lombardi is a clinical psychologist with a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She has professional experience in psychological assessment, evidence-based therapy, and research, working with both child and adult populations. Avery has provided clinical services in hospital, educational, and community settings, delivering interventions such as CBT, DBT, and tailored treatment plans for conditions including anxiety, depression, and developmental disorders. She has also contributed to research on self-stigma, self-esteem, and medication adherence in psychotic patients, and has created educational content on ADHD, treatment options, and daily coping strategies.

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

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