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Should I get assessed for ADHD if I lose track of conversations often? 

Author: Victoria Rowe, MSc | Reviewed by: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

Losing track of conversations can be frustrating. You might be talking with someone and suddenly realise you have missed key points or forgotten what was just said. If this happens frequently, you might wonder whether it is a simple case of distraction or something more significant, like ADHD. ADHD assessment could provide answers, especially if inattentiveness is affecting other areas of your life, such as work, relationships, or personal goals. 

An ADHD assessment is a comprehensive diagnostic evaluation that helps determine whether ADHD is behind your conversational struggles and other symptoms. Getting assessed can be the first step toward understanding the root cause of your difficulties and finding the right treatment options to manage them. 

Why Losing Track of Conversations Might Indicate ADHD 

Here is why ADHD could be the reason you often lose track of conversations: 

Inattentiveness and mental distractions:  

ADHD is primarily characterised by problems with attention. If your mind frequently wanders during conversations, it could be due to inattentiveness, which is one of the hallmark symptoms of ADHD. Your brain may be juggling multiple thoughts at once, making it hard to focus on what’s being said in real-time. 

Difficulty processing information in the moment:  

ADHD affects how the brain processes and holds information. If you often lose the thread of conversations or forget points immediately after they are said, this could be a sign that your brain struggles with working memory and information retention, both of which are impacted by ADHD. 

Impulsivity and mental “zoning out”:  

Sometimes, ADHD can cause impulsivity, where your thoughts or responses jump ahead of what is happening in the conversation. This can result in losing track of what was said, as your mind moves quickly from one idea to the next. 

Why You Should Consider an ADHD Assessment 

If losing track of conversations is a recurring issue, it might be worth considering an ADHD assessment. Here is why: 

It provides clarity:  

An assessment can determine whether your struggles with inattentiveness and focus are related to ADHD or another condition. It is the first step in understanding why certain symptoms, like task forgetfulness and conversation drift, seem to happen so often. 

Professional guidance:  

A trained professional can help you explore whether ADHD is contributing to other challenges in your life. They can also recommend appropriate next steps, such as therapy, coaching, or medication, to help manage your symptoms and improve focus in conversations. 

Helps with treatment planning:  

If the assessment shows that you do have ADHD, the right diagnosis opens the door to a tailored treatment plan that addresses both the inattentiveness and executive dysfunction that may be causing your conversational issues. 

Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations to discuss ADHD assessments, how they work, and whether they might help you better understand your symptoms and behaviours.

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to Losing track of conversations or tasks.

Victoria Rowe, MSc, author for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Victoria Rowe, MSc
Author

Victoria Rowe is a health psychologist with a Master’s in Health Psychology and a BS in Applied Psychology. She has experience as a school psychologist, conducting behavioural assessments, developing individualized education plans (IEPs), and supporting children’s mental health. Dr. Rowe has contributed to peer-reviewed research on mental health, including studies on anxiety disorders and the impact of COVID-19 on healthcare systems. Skilled in SPSS, Minitab, and academic writing, she is committed to advancing psychological knowledge and promoting well-being through evidence-based practice.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy. 

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
Reviewer

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy.