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How Do I Express That I Suspect I Have ADHD Without Sounding Self-Diagnosed? 

PostedOctober 15, 2025
UpdatedOctober 16, 2025
ByMy Patient Advice
Author: Harriet Winslow, BSc | Reviewed by: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

It’s natural to feel unsure about bringing up ADHD with your doctor, especially if you’re worried about coming across as though you’ve already made a diagnosis. Practising clear, honest ADHD self-advocacy is key to opening the conversation in a respectful and informed way. Rather than saying, “I think I have ADHD,” try framing it around your experiences, like, “I’ve noticed I struggle with focus and organisation, and I wonder if this could be ADHD.” 

Effective doctor communication ADHD focuses on presenting what you’re experiencing, not labelling it. Keeping the discussion centred on your symptoms gives your doctor room to assess and guide the next steps without feeling you’re bypassing their expertise. 

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How It Helps to Focus on Symptoms 

Approaching the conversation through symptom sharing allows for stronger, clearer ADHD self-advocacy. 

Describe Your Challenges 

When presenting symptoms ADHD, be specific about what you find difficult. For example, talk about losing focus during conversations or forgetting tasks even with reminders. 

Avoid Medical Language 

Stick to your lived experience rather than clinical terms. This keeps the tone collaborative and reduces the risk of being misunderstood. 

Ask for Guidance 

You can say, “I’m not sure what this might mean, but it’s been affecting me for a while. Could we look into it together?” 

This approach helps you advocate for yourself confidently while showing respect for your doctor’s role in assessing your concerns. 

Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations and expert advice tailored to your needs.    

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to How to talk to doctors or get assessed. 

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Harriet Winslow, BSc - My patient advice author - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Harriet Winslow, BSc
Author

Harriet Winslow is a clinical psychologist with a Bachelor’s in Clinical Psychology and extensive experience in behaviour therapy and developmental disorders. She has worked with children and adolescents with ADHD, autism spectrum disorder (ASD), learning disabilities, and behavioural challenges, providing individual and group therapy using evidence-based approaches such as CBT and DBT. Dr. Winslow has developed and implemented personalised treatment plans, conducted formal and informal assessments, and delivered crisis intervention for clients in need of urgent mental health care. Her expertise spans assessment, treatment planning, and behavioural intervention for both neurodevelopmental and mental health conditions.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy.

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
Reviewer

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy.