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What Should I Not Say When Discussing ADHD with a Doctor? 

PostedOctober 15, 2025
UpdatedOctober 16, 2025
ByMy Patient Advice
Author: Harriet Winslow, BSc | Reviewed by: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

When seeking ADHD doctor advice, it’s important to communicate clearly and effectively to get the best possible care. However, there are some things you might want to avoid saying, as they could make it harder for your doctor to fully understand your symptoms or delay the diagnosis. Knowing what to avoid can help improve the conversation and lead to a more accurate assessment. 

Avoid downplaying your symptoms. Saying things like “It’s not that bad” or “I just have a little trouble focusing” might make your doctor underestimate the impact of ADHD on your life. Be honest and open about how your symptoms affect your daily activities, work, and relationships. This will help avoid mistakes in ADHD when assessing your condition. 

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Communication Tips for ADHD 

Minimise Assumptions 

Don’t assume your doctor already knows what you’re experiencing. Instead of saying, “I’m sure I have ADHD,” focus on describing your ADHD symptoms in detail. This gives your doctor the opportunity to assess your situation based on the facts you provide. 

Avoid Self-Diagnosing 

While it’s natural to research symptoms, avoid making a self-diagnosis before your appointment. Let your doctor conduct their own assessment so they can offer the most accurate ADHD doctor advice. 

By avoiding these mistakes, you can ensure better communication and a more productive conversation with your doctor about ADHD. Being open and honest will help them make a well-informed decision about next steps in your treatment. 

Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations and expert advice tailored to your needs.    

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to How to talk to doctors or get assessed. 

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Harriet Winslow, BSc - My patient advice author - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Harriet Winslow, BSc
Author

Harriet Winslow is a clinical psychologist with a Bachelor’s in Clinical Psychology and extensive experience in behaviour therapy and developmental disorders. She has worked with children and adolescents with ADHD, autism spectrum disorder (ASD), learning disabilities, and behavioural challenges, providing individual and group therapy using evidence-based approaches such as CBT and DBT. Dr. Winslow has developed and implemented personalised treatment plans, conducted formal and informal assessments, and delivered crisis intervention for clients in need of urgent mental health care. Her expertise spans assessment, treatment planning, and behavioural intervention for both neurodevelopmental and mental health conditions.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy.

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
Reviewer

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy.