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What Practical Coping Strategies Work for Women with Adult ADHD? 

Author: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

Finding the right coping strategies for adult women with ADHD is essential for managing everyday life. Many women are diagnosed later in life, after years of silently struggling with disorganisation, forgetfulness, emotional overwhelm, and low self-esteem. The right tools don’t just help manage symptoms, they restore confidence and improve quality of life. Crucially, effective strategies are not one-size-fits-all; they must align with how the ADHD brain actually functions. 

Daily Coping Strategies That Help 

Here are some of the most effective coping strategies for adult women with ADHD, especially when it comes to organisation skills and daily management

Visual task systems 

Tools like whiteboards, colour-coded calendars, or sticky notes can help with planning and remembering priorities. These visual cues provide structure without being overwhelming and help combat time blindness and forgetfulness. 

Body doubling 

This technique involves doing tasks alongside someone else, either in person or virtually. It’s especially helpful for tasks like cleaning, paying bills, or completing admin work. Many women find it keeps them focused and less likely to abandon tasks halfway through. 

Timers and reminders 

Using timers (like the Pomodoro technique) or app-based reminders can help break tasks into manageable chunks. This supports time management and helps avoid hyperfocus or complete task avoidance. 

Task batching and routine blocks 

 Grouping similar tasks together (like emails, errands, or paperwork) and assigning them to specific time blocks in the week helps reduce decision fatigue and builds routine, two things women with ADHD often struggle with. 

Emotional self-regulation tools 

 Practices like journaling, mindfulness apps, or short walks can help manage the emotional rollercoaster that often comes with ADHD. Understanding emotional triggers is just as important as managing your calendar. 

Building a Life That Works 

The best coping strategies for adult women with ADHD are those that reduce shame and increase self-trust. It’s not about becoming perfectly organised,  it’s about finding rhythms that make life feel more manageable. 

Visit providers like ADHD Certify for tailored support and coaching resources focused on helping women with ADHD thrive. 

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to Late diagnosis and gender differences. 

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
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Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

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