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Should I Talk to My Doctor About ADHD or Just Try Harder? 

PostedOctober 15, 2025
UpdatedOctober 15, 2025
ByMy Patient Advice
Author: Phoebe Carter, MSc | Reviewed by: Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS

If you’ve been struggling with focus, forgetfulness, or chronic procrastination, you might wonder: Am I overthinking this, or should I be talking to my doctor about ADHD. The answer is simple, if your difficulties are interfering with daily life, it’s worth a conversation. Trying harder isn’t always the solution, especially if the root issue is neurological, not motivational.

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When to Speak Up 

Many adults live for years misdiagnosed, or not diagnosed at all, because they assume their symptoms are personal failings. This can lead to burnout, anxiety, or missed opportunities for growth. The misdiagnosis risk is real, especially when symptoms are masked by coping mechanisms or misunderstood as laziness, depression, or stress. 

By talking to your doctor about ADHD, you start a process of clarity. Your GP or a mental health provider can assess your symptoms, refer you to a specialist, and discuss whether ADHD could be the cause. Even if it isn’t, understanding what is going on is far more effective than simply pushing yourself harder without the right tools. 

The Benefits of Treatment Options 

An accurate diagnosis opens the door to tailored treatment options, from medication and therapy to time management strategies and lifestyle changes. These approaches aren’t about making excuses; they’re about giving your brain what it needs to function at its best. 

You deserve answers, not guilt. 

Visit providers like ADHD Certify for personal consultations to better understand how brain imaging can inform ADHD treatment.  

For a deeper dive into the science, diagnosis, and full treatment landscape, read our complete guide to ADHD misconceptions.  

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Phoebe Carter, MSc
Author

Phoebe Carter is a clinical psychologist with a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and a Bachelor’s in Applied Psychology. She has experience working with both children and adults, conducting psychological assessments, developing individualized treatment plans, and delivering evidence-based therapies. Phoebe specialises in neurodevelopmental conditions such as autism spectrum disorder (ASD), ADHD, and learning disabilities, as well as mood, anxiety, psychotic, and personality disorders. She is skilled in CBT, behaviour modification, ABA, and motivational interviewing, and is dedicated to providing compassionate, evidence-based mental health care to individuals of all ages.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the author's privacy. 

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS, author and a reviewer for my patient advice - mypatientadvice.co.uk
Dr. Rebecca Fernandez, MBBS
Reviewer

Dr. Rebecca Fernandez is a UK-trained physician with an MBBS and experience in general surgery, cardiology, internal medicine, gynecology, intensive care, and emergency medicine. She has managed critically ill patients, stabilised acute trauma cases, and provided comprehensive inpatient and outpatient care. In psychiatry, Dr. Fernandez has worked with psychotic, mood, anxiety, and substance use disorders, applying evidence-based approaches such as CBT, ACT, and mindfulness-based therapies. Her skills span patient assessment, treatment planning, and the integration of digital health solutions to support mental well-being.

All qualifications and professional experience stated above are authentic and verified by our editorial team. However, pseudonym and image likeness are used to protect the reviewer's privacy.